Hello everyone and welcome back to Bileo English.
And I'm Leo. Such a pleasure to have you all here with us today.
Leo, can I tell you something? Last week was genuinely hard for me.
Really? What happened, Bella?
My best friend moved abroad for work.
Ten years of friendship, and suddenly she is so far away.
At the airport, when we said goodbye, I just froze completely.
The words would not come out at all.
Oh no. That sounds really painful. What did you do?
Nothing. I just stood there and waved. It felt like the worst farewell in history.
I know that feeling so well. The heart is completely full and the mouth is completely empty.
Exactly. And for days afterward, I kept asking myself: why did I not say something more meaningful?
Bella, I have done the same thing.
My university friend moved away and I just said "okay, bye" and walked off.
Leo, no! That is genuinely terrible. How did your friend react to that?
Honestly, I have no idea. But I still feel bad about it.
So today we are learning how to say a real, heartfelt goodbye in English?
Exactly that. Four phrases to help anyone express what they truly feel in that difficult moment.
No more frozen moments and silent waves at departure gates.
So why is saying goodbye in English such a challenge for so many people?
The problem is that most people only know simple words.
Words like "bye" or "good luck." That is really all.
Those words are fine for casual moments. But they cannot carry the real weight of a meaningful goodbye.
Right. And "good luck" especially can sound cold. Almost like you do not care at all.
Yes. I once said "good luck" to a close friend at a very emotional moment. The look on her face.
That phrase belongs before a test, not at an airport gate during a real farewell.
Farewell. Do you know this word, everyone?
Farewell is a deeper, more emotional kind of goodbye. It is used when the parting feels truly significant.
More formal than "bye," but it captures something real. A sense of genuine depth and care.
The phrases we learn today are not formal at all. They are warm, honest, and easy to say to anyone.
Simple words that travel straight from the heart to the heart.
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Imagine standing with your best friend at the departure gate. The bags are checked in. The moment is here.
Everything feels bigger than usual in that moment.
And the normal everyday things people say just do not feel like enough anymore.
The first thing most people want to communicate is this simple but powerful truth: I am going to miss this person.
How do we say that in English?
The phrase is: "I'm really going to miss you."
"I'm really going to miss you."
That word "really" does all the work.
It is the difference between something polite people say automatically and something that comes from the heart.
Without "really," it sounds like something people say out of habit.
With it, the words carry genuine, personal weight.
By the way, the word "miss" is very important here. Do you know this word, everyone?
Miss means to feel that deep, aching sadness because someone you love is not with you anymore.
So the full phrase carries this meaning:
Your presence matters to me deeply, and I will feel it when it is gone.
That is genuinely moving.
It tells the other person something true: you are not replaceable, and your absence will be felt.
People carry phrases like this with them for a very long time. They stay. Long after the airport. Long after the flight lands.
That is so beautiful. What comes next?
Now picture a slightly different moment.
Someone close to you is heading somewhere entirely new. A different country or city.
A fresh start far away. And the worry and care both set in at the same time.
In that moment, how does someone show care and concern without sounding heavy or dramatic?
Whatever is said, it needs to feel warm. Not like a command. Not like a warning.
The phrase is: "Take care of yourself, okay?"
"Take care of yourself, okay?"
Listen to that "okay?" at the end. That one small word changes everything.
It turns the phrase into a gentle, caring wish.
It does not sound like a rule to follow. It sounds like something said from a place of genuine love.
Exactly. That phrase is saying: I care about your well-being, and I am going to be thinking of you out there.
I wish I had said that to my university friend instead of just walking off without a single word.
It is never too late. One message today can still carry all of that care and warmth right now.
Maybe I actually will send that message.
That is exactly the spirit of this phrase. It reaches out even across time and distance.
After the goodbye moment is over, the friendship still needs to breathe and survive. Distance alone should not end a good relationship.
But it does happen, and it happens more often than people expect.
Life gets busy, communication slowly fades, and the silence takes over entirely.
That is exactly why this next phrase matters so deeply. Please remember it: "Keep in touch."
Keep in touch. Do you know this phrase, everyone?
"Keep in touch" means stay connected with someone. Write them. Call them. Do not let the silence grow between you.
It is a promise and an open door at the same time. Like saying: this friendship is not something I am willing to lose.
Another warm way to say this is "let's keep in touch" or "please keep in touch." Both sound very natural.
All versions of this phrase carry the same core meaning: this connection between us is something genuinely worth protecting, no matter the distance.
And when someone hears "keep in touch," something lands in them that goes deeper than just those three small words.
What do they hear exactly?
They hear this: the story between us is not over yet.
There is still so much more to come for both of us.
That reframing changes the whole goodbye.
And now the last phrase. This one is my personal favorite because it completely transforms the feeling of a goodbye.
What does it do to that feeling, Bella?
It refuses to let the goodbye be a closed door. The phrase is: "This isn't goodbye. Just see you later."
"This isn't goodbye. Just see you later."
There is so much genuine hope carried in those words.
They say: we will meet again soon. This distance is only temporary.
It takes what could feel like a final, heavy, painful ending and turns it into something open, hopeful, and forward-looking.
And it works because it is almost always true. Most goodbyes are not goodbye forever.
Bittersweet. Do you know this word, everyone?
Bittersweet describes something that holds both happiness and sadness at exactly the same time.
Every single heartfelt goodbye is bittersweet.
There is love living inside the sadness, and there is real sadness living inside the love.
And this phrase, "this isn't goodbye," holds both of those feelings gently without making either one disappear.
That is what makes it such a generous and beautiful thing to say.
It gives the other person something real and hopeful to hold onto.
So let's now put all four phrases together. Picture the airport scene one final time.
"I'm really going to miss you. Take care of yourself, okay?"
Then: "Keep in touch. This isn't goodbye. Just see you later."
Now that is a real farewell. Not just an "okay, bye" and a wave at the terminal.
Every single phrase carries real weight.
Every one of them is saying the same thing: this friendship matters deeply to me and to us.
That is the real difference between a goodbye that stings for days and one that someone carries warmly in their own heart for a lifetime.
Alright. Let's review everything we learned today.
We talked about how to say a real, heartfelt goodbye in English using four simple but powerful phrases.
"I'm really going to miss you." Say this when someone important is leaving your life for a while.
The word "really" is the key. It shows the feeling is genuine and honest, not just something polite people say.
"Take care of yourself, okay?" Use this to show care and worry when someone is heading somewhere new.
That small "okay?" at the end does everything. Warm, gentle, full of real love.
"Keep in touch." A promise that the friendship continues regardless of the distance between you.
Another version: "let's keep in touch" or "please keep in touch." All warm. All natural.
And the most powerful one: "This isn't goodbye. Just see you later."
This phrase keeps the door wide open. It turns what could be a sad ending into something hopeful and full of light.
And the most important thing?
Goodbye does not have to be the last word. The right phrase keeps the door open for both people.
These phrases are a gift. And a gift is always meant to be given to someone who matters.
Practice them out loud. Say them to a mirror. The people in your life will feel every word of the difference.
Remember: even just one of these phrases is enough to completely transform what could have been a difficult, awkward, or painful goodbye moment.
Which one feels most natural to you? Think about that as you go through your day.
Everyone, you did a wonderful job today. These phrases take real courage to say out loud.
We have a question for you today, everyone.
Think of a goodbye you never quite got right. Maybe a friend, a teacher, or someone from a past chapter of your life.
Write a goodbye message for that person in the comments, using one phrase from today's lesson.
We will read every single comment. Hearing from you always makes our day so much brighter.
And if someone close to you is facing a goodbye soon, share this episode with them right now.
These phrases might give them exactly the words they have been quietly searching for in moments like this.
The right words are a small thing that can mean absolutely everything to the person on the receiving end.
Thank you for listening to Bileo English. See you next time.
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